Today out of the BLUE BLUE BLUE... I rec'd a child support check from my ex-husband... Normally I get like between $5-30 once every 4-5 yrs or so...umm..its been years since I got a CS check...and even longer since I got a tax refund check they confiscated of his...he owes almost $70K to me.. Today...I was bowled over..hubby comes in and says I couldnt wait..I had to open something up..I said what? he said you got something good int he mail..I said what? so we played the game for a minute..and finally I said OMGosh a CS check? He said yep! I said great, so can I take the kids to McD's now and eat off the $1 menu? he's like uh..yeah for like a year!.. It was for over $900!!! Soo..this will be the last one for a LONG time...because I know whatever he was doing..he has now quit..thats his M.O.... work under table so we cant get any $ for back ordered child support.. (for Britt)...then he gets lazy after several yrs and gets a regular JOB ..then they locate him and garnish his wages..then he wakes up and quits..and crawls back underground for a few yrs... This is amazing...God is completely providing right now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Been there done that! After 9 years my son's biological father I guess finally got out of jail and settled down or something and I started getting CS checks monthly. I figured at $136. a month my son will be 40 before he finally pays everything he owes back! His bio mom is almost a year behind, but is trying to catch up what she owes. Since we adopted him in 2009 they only owe for the first 9 years arrears. Mom has always had her's taken from her pay. Have never gotten the tax money they the government confiscates.
COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND!!!!!!!!! It took us about 7 yrs to get IRS to get ANYTHING..now he doesnt file grrr... Usually if its from the IRS they have a note on there...but this doesnt...I'll call the caseworker monday tho!
My dad ditched us when I was little. I got to see him maybe four times total growing up. Then about a month before I turned 18, and my sister was almost 20, he decided to come back and try to be in our lives. He never paid a dime towards us, and he's mad and hurt because I don't want anything to do with him now. I thought it was pretty convenient that he was gone until all his kids were grown and he didn't have to pay for them.
