I'm sorry to read about your loss. I hope these tips will help Ya..Bait your traps with a tbls of Grape Jelly on a slice of bread. Use legget traps in areas your birds dont roam. You can make a box trap with a 220 conibear trap, in trail or boarder areas. I lock my birds in several small coops @ night. Larger buildings like old barns are to easy for coon to penetrate. If you have a large piece of property, allow night hunters to bring in there hound dogs during the proper season. (You'll make some great friends doing that,& most will offer to trap for you)