To be honest, my wild does didn't really calm down until after they had babies and I was milking them...it could take him awhile to get a little more laid back and mature if he's young. I wouldn't sweat it. 

Thanks for the advice. I never thought of that he would be the one training me! I am going to give your tips a try and see how far I get. I know he might not be the cuddle bug that I would want but I should be able to walk up to him and touch without him freaking out.