Terrified of something....

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So there's this kid who has what is called "ticks" in my school. well that's what he said anyway. He pokes people all the time. I know what "ticks" are and how they can cause people to react; screaming, grabbing, etc. But when he does it, he thinks it's funny.
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And no offense but he's really creepy...he will walk up to random people and hug them and say in a "stalker-like" voice, "will you be my bestest friend ever?!" as if it's a joke. Last year I sat next to him in gym(at our assigned numbers) and he poked me constantly.
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I told him to stop and my friend and I often went to the gym teacher and this kid got a lot of detentions. But he kept doing it, of course.
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One time he frustrated me so much that I just couldn't hold back the tears anymore.
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I tried to keep them in but I couldn't. He asked, "Why are your eyes watering?" in a mocking voice, as if he was amused. I felt so upset and angry at the same time.
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I was SOO glad when gym was over.
This year, he's only been in my computer class. My computer teacher thinks he's so sweet, since that's the way he acts all the time. When he sat at our lunch table a little while ago, computer teacher came and sat down to just chat with us. She's really nice. The kid sat there and acted like a kind little kid, didn't say anything to my friends and I. then the teacher left and he said, "Hi, (my name)!" in a creepy high pitched voice. I said high back, just to be kind. My friend whispered to me, "If he starts poking you, just ignore it. he will get bored after a while." But the problem is is that I am REALLY ticklish and he pokes me HARD right in the stomach and it hurts.
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I've been lucky this year that he's not in my class, but lately I've thought about what would happen if he's in my class next year. It would seriously ruin my entire school year.
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I just couldn't take the poking and constant stalking from this kid! And I'm really sensitive and it's hard for me to tell a teacher because I will break down crying.
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I don''t know why. it's just like this helpless feeling inside me.
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So anyway, I've been TERRIFIED of him being in my class next year. If he is, I will seriously talk to my teacher and try and move to another class. If I can't, then I will have to deal with it my way. if he ever touches me at all, I swear I will really kick him(not too hard that i really hurt him, but just to protect myself).
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I'm sick of him poking me and haunting me, and I will defend myself if I have to. He knows I don't like it, and he acts all sweet around the teachers.


I'm sitting here almost in tears just thinking about it if he were in my class next year; I honestly couldn't concentrate with him sitting next to me, poking me in the stomach all the time. I just couldn't do it.
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There is no reason for you to be uncomfortable in school. If he is bothering you ask the teacher to reassign your seat, they will probably ask why, tell them you are not comfortable with him touching you and leave it at that. If it doesn't stop ask your parents for help. Never feel bad for being uncomfortable, stand up for yourself.

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I had a kid that went all craZy on me and I just asked to not have to sit by him anymore... they put him on the opposite end of the classroom from me and on top of that they told his parents that he had been bugging me and that he better stop or he'd get detention.
 
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Yeah but if I asked my teacher I would probably be struggling REALLY hard to keep in the tears; that's how easily emotional I am.
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I mean, today when my laptop's internet wasn't working I was like, "Oh great! Now what am I going to do?! Something is messed up with it and i have no idea how to fix it...and we have substitute teachers today so I don't think they know how..." but luckily my friend fixed it. I was so close to tears because I got really worried and upset. I know, dumb to get upset about that, right? I remember last year I cried in class about every day in math because I was struggling with fractions.
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Every day while driving to school I would already get that helpless/regretful feeling inside me. I have improved and I don't stress out over math as much now, but I still am very emotional. After reading these kind responses from you guys, I just couldn't help it; I started getting teary-eyes again!
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Aw kiddo read what I wrote on the other thread. The overwhelming feelings, the tears the nervousness - all part of the joys of hormones!! Boy - girl doesn't matter, those raging hormones will make you feel rotten, and feel like nothing will ever get better!

It DOES get better!!! Really, it does. One day you'll look back at this and wonder why you put up with that or why you thought THAT moron's opinion was so important.
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You can also have your parents ask the school to not put you both in the same class.
 
Maybe that will help the teacher realize the graivty of the situation. Just ask the teacher if you can schedule a time to talk to him/ her alone and then tell him/ her what's going on. It's ok to cry!
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It's also ok to write out exactly what the issues are and why you do not want to sit near this person. When I was younger, I had a very difficult time expressing my feelings without breaking down into tears, and I'd end up saying something I didn't want to, and leave out something I really wanted or needed to say. Writing it down causes you to focus your thoughts and decide what is really important, and how to phrase the problem so others will understand how you feel.
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