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YES!!! Dr. Bib, I shall return all the favors!! Rant away!!!
Okay, here goes.
I'm best friends with Guy A and Guy B, and I'm dating Guy B right now. Both guys like me a lot, and I promised Guy A that should I break up with Guy B, I'll date Guy A because I actually really like him, even more than I like Guy B.
I recently confessed to B that I've been having doubts about our relationship, which B also has. He's convinced that he can make our relationship work out, but I'm not really sure, because of A. When I told A that I was dating someone else, I knew that I really hurt him, but you can't exactly date 2 guys at the same time.
I know that if I break up with B, he'll be really really depressed, but at the same time, I'm also hurting A by sticking with B, and I really don't know who to date, because I like them both, but I think I like A more than B. This is also hurting me.
wut 2 due?
I have two older sisters, (one married, one engaged) so I have seen and heard my fair share of dating issues. If you are having doubts, then be truthful. It's only hurting both of you more if your silent. You said you liked Guy A better, then go with him. Another thing, are you dating for marriage or for fun? That's a question that people should answer before they start seriously dating. If for marriage, think about it for a second. Who do you really like, as a buddy, as a best friend, as someone to confide in and lean on? Someone who you can be a helpmeet, too? If for fun, I'd say don't get too wild
Hope this helps.
