The NFC B-Day Chat Thread

Good Morning Friends :hugs

Ouch Cap!

Touch wood .. I have never had an issue with my girls and the heat. I ensure they have lots of water, watermelon, shade and a mister .. if it is really hot, they just plonk themselves on the damp dirt and ride it out ;)

Diva I do not know how hot it actually needs to be to fry an egg but I do know that they have been fried on car bonnets in outback Aus and on tarmac.

Thank you all for your kind words and support … While hubby is not concerned about how much I earn “we will be fine”, I am now going through the ‘what if’s’ .. what if I get sick? No income. What if I should find myself on my own for whatever reason; am I going to be earning enough to get by?

At the moment I have all the benefits of holiday pay, sick leave etc and while I am in a happy relationship, I have the cushion of being financially independent and a Plan B if things should go wrong. That may not be the case when I start out with my own business and I am getting to the age that finding a new, ‘secure’, regular income again if I had to would not be easy.

So, now I have two options, do I stay in a ‘secure’ job where I am not happy and stressed, or do I take the chance and do something which I believe will make me much happier but is a step into the ‘unknown’ and less ‘secure and independent’?

When I ponder the challenge ahead of me I get excited, but when I go through the ‘what if’s’ I worry that the decision is not a good one. However, on the other hand, if I say to myself “OK, then stay where you are”, that is depressing!

I know you guys n’ gals are not in a position to advise me per say, but I would appreciate your thoughts or similar experiences; act as my sounding boards so to speak? Feel free to be honest! ;)
 
Good Morning Friends :hugs

Ouch Cap!

Touch wood .. I have never had an issue with my girls and the heat. I ensure they have lots of water, watermelon, shade and a mister .. if it is really hot, they just plonk themselves on the damp dirt and ride it out ;)

Diva I do not know how hot it actually needs to be to fry an egg but I do know that they have been fried on car bonnets in outback Aus and on tarmac.

Thank you all for your kind words and support … While hubby is not concerned about how much I earn “we will be fine”, I am now going through the ‘what if’s’ .. what if I get sick? No income. What if I should find myself on my own for whatever reason; am I going to be earning enough to get by?

At the moment I have all the benefits of holiday pay, sick leave etc and while I am in a happy relationship, I have the cushion of being financially independent and a Plan B if things should go wrong. That may not be the case when I start out with my own business and I am getting to the age that finding a new, ‘secure’, regular income again if I had to would not be easy.

So, now I have two options, do I stay in a ‘secure’ job where I am not happy and stressed, or do I take the chance and do something which I believe will make me much happier but is a step into the ‘unknown’ and less ‘secure and independent’?

When I ponder the challenge ahead of me I get excited, but when I go through the ‘what if’s’ I worry that the decision is not a good one. However, on the other hand, if I say to myself “OK, then stay where you are”, that is depressing!

I know you guys n’ gals are not in a position to advise me per say, but I would appreciate your thoughts or similar experiences; act as my sounding boards so to speak? Feel free to be honest! ;)
Lots of beverages and treats to get you through!
 
Yep and she did not even die of old age, she was taken out by a wasp sting :(
Not precisely, the poor thing died because a parasitic wasp got in the spider's burrow and laid eggs on her. As the commentator said, she didn't die of old age. Thus they really have no idea how long a trapdoor spider can live. Apparently they never leave their burrows.

That is way to long for a spider to live!!
Not long enough! They originally thought a spider's lifespan was about 25 years. She beat the heck out of that and could have gone on who knows how many more years.

https://news.nationalgeographic.com...ies-trapdoor-spider-australia-43-animals-spd/
 
Good Morning Friends :hugs

Ouch Cap!

Touch wood .. I have never had an issue with my girls and the heat. I ensure they have lots of water, watermelon, shade and a mister .. if it is really hot, they just plonk themselves on the damp dirt and ride it out ;)

Diva I do not know how hot it actually needs to be to fry an egg but I do know that they have been fried on car bonnets in outback Aus and on tarmac.

Thank you all for your kind words and support … While hubby is not concerned about how much I earn “we will be fine”, I am now going through the ‘what if’s’ .. what if I get sick? No income. What if I should find myself on my own for whatever reason; am I going to be earning enough to get by?

At the moment I have all the benefits of holiday pay, sick leave etc and while I am in a happy relationship, I have the cushion of being financially independent and a Plan B if things should go wrong. That may not be the case when I start out with my own business and I am getting to the age that finding a new, ‘secure’, regular income again if I had to would not be easy.

So, now I have two options, do I stay in a ‘secure’ job where I am not happy and stressed, or do I take the chance and do something which I believe will make me much happier but is a step into the ‘unknown’ and less ‘secure and independent’?

When I ponder the challenge ahead of me I get excited, but when I go through the ‘what if’s’ I worry that the decision is not a good one. However, on the other hand, if I say to myself “OK, then stay where you are”, that is depressing!

I know you guys n’ gals are not in a position to advise me per say, but I would appreciate your thoughts or similar experiences; act as my sounding boards so to speak? Feel free to be honest! ;)
I would go for something different if you are not happy. Happiness is priceless!
 
OMG! This is just plain spooky! :oops:

I open Facebook and this is the first thing I see randomly shared by an acquaintance who I have not confided in and do not really talk to a great deal .... complete with old typewriter!

Spooky.jpg
 
Lots of beverages and treats to get you through!

:thumbsup :p

Not precisely, the poor thing died because a parasitic wasp got in the spider's burrow and laid eggs on her. As the commentator said, she didn't die of old age. Thus they really have no idea how long a trapdoor spider can live. Apparently they never leave their burrows.

https://news.nationalgeographic.com...ies-trapdoor-spider-australia-43-animals-spd/

Thank you for that Bruce; my bad, I was just repeating what I had heard; as always, varying reports ;)

I would go for something different if you are not happy. Happiness is priceless!

Thank You! :hugs
 
OMG! This is just plain spooky! :oops:

I open Facebook and this is the first thing I see randomly shared by an acquaintance who I have not confided in and do not really talk to a great deal .... complete with old typewriter!

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Probably someone on BYC that hasn't told you they are here :D

You'll make the right decision. Change is scary even when you choose it!
 
Probably someone on BYC that hasn't told you they are here :D

You'll make the right decision. Change is scary even when you choose it!

Thank You :hugs

This is a public forum and easily searched

I have not actually ever met this guy and he is just an on-line acquaintance who lives in Aus, as far as I know does not own chickens and I doubt very much is lurking here ... Having said that, you there Chris?? ;)

I do not think he would be interested enough to search for anything I have on the net outside of Facebook.

Freaky! Anyways, back to our usual program ..............
 

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