Good for you! If we don't take care of ourselves, we can't take care of anyone elseI just told him that I have too many problems to act like I'm in my 20 s. He's always acting like well that's a problem but not mine. I finally told him one day that if he wanted to work himself to death then do it but don't expect me to join him. He's figuring out that I am not about to do anything that could cause me more problems.