Unfortunately many people will deny that they are not feeling well, and try to hide it from others. Often because they don't want to make a fuss, or maybe just do not want to know if they are seriously ill. I remember trying to talk my Dad into going to the hospital when his final illness hit - we thought it was a stroke (turned out to be a brain tumor). My sister and I together, as well as a nurse neighbor, could not get him to go. The next morning we finally got his doctor on the phone, and he was able to get Dad to allow us to drive him to the hospital (no ambulance though!)
Without being there, and knowing how someone is acting, it is hard to criticize those that were around at the time.
Without being there, and knowing how someone is acting, it is hard to criticize those that were around at the time.