As Mr. twain said "there's lies, darn lies and statistics."
You have three different measurements and no way of knowing which is "true". The only sure way to know is if you have a certified, NIST-traceable standards thermometer on hand. These run about a $100 each and are only good for a very narrow temperature range.
You can get an idea of where yours are by using the ice bath, boiling water technique. Use a cup of water with several ices cubes in it and place each thermometer probe in the water. They should read 32 degrees F. then place them in a pan of boiling water, should be 212 F. Plot a graph of the desired line from the points 32 and 212 and then the points for each of the thermometers, connect the pair of dots for each and find the themperature that you are trying to set (ie 100.5 F). The line that comes the closest will be the more accurate device.
Most of the digitals should have an adjustment screw to allow you to tweat the reading. Only adjust for the ice bath temperature. then see where it reads for the boiling water and replot. If it's within .5 degrees you're good to go. Example: if at the 100.5 F point on the standard line your best one reads 103 then you'll know you need to set the incubator to keep that thermometer at 103.