I quit smoking after 45 years, using the patch as an aid. I took my time with it, ie didn't go to the next level until I was ready and I took it off at night due to the nightmares. Also, there are other habits that go with smoking, such as having your cigs with you, I tried to be aware of that and not deal with all of the habits at once. I carried my ciggarette (see I can't even spell it anymore) case with me for awhile until I felt done with it. Deep breathing helped, and sometimes just telling myself to wait a couple of hours and if I was still desperate I could smoke, thing is, I would forget about it! Its been 4 years now, and I hardly think of them, and I am VERY glad I quit.