One of my best dogs was a golden mix. She looked just like a pure bred, as did all her littermates, but her mom was a lab/aussie mix and black as coal! We named her Cashew and raised her form a pup. She was reliable around kids, mine and other's, would bark at anyone coming around, was too smart, and was effortless to train. She would take her time in trusting strangers, but as soon as she felt we were okay with them, so was she.
If you want your pup to be stranger aware (not agressive) then keep her away from adults outside the family for her first 2 years, but let small children play with her. It is hard to do and takes commitment from everyone in the family, but at 2 years plus, she should exclude others from her pack and be wary of strangers. At the same time, nurture her sense of confidence. Take her out to public places on a leash and get her used to people but don't let any one of them touch or talk to her. It's hard, people love dogs, but if you say, "please, don't distract her right now, we're in the middle of a very important training session. Thanks!" most people will respect that. I would sit with mine at the park and when I noticed that she was focused on an adult that was out of earshot I would lean down and massage her ribs and shoulders while saying "Watch um" in a menacing whisper as if that person was some terrible threat. The close contact gave her the security and the tone let her know that that person was not a friend. Later, when someone pulled in the drive or knocked on the door, I again said "watch um"and she would come to me for the security, but would growl deep in her throat. If a dog is really timid, you can get a friend that the dog doesn't know to help by acting scared and retreating from her when the dog gets focused. Caution! If you do this with a confident dog you will be encouraging the attack response, so be carefull. This form of training is the opposite of what you want in a town dog or a naturally agressive breed. You want everyone to pet them so you won't have a lawsuit on a leash! Keep in mind that each dog has a personality and that training has to be constantly modified. What you, your daughter and your husband want in your new dog is not only possible but shoud be fairly simple to obtain from a golden or golden mix.
Goldens can be chicken eaters.
If you want your pup to be stranger aware (not agressive) then keep her away from adults outside the family for her first 2 years, but let small children play with her. It is hard to do and takes commitment from everyone in the family, but at 2 years plus, she should exclude others from her pack and be wary of strangers. At the same time, nurture her sense of confidence. Take her out to public places on a leash and get her used to people but don't let any one of them touch or talk to her. It's hard, people love dogs, but if you say, "please, don't distract her right now, we're in the middle of a very important training session. Thanks!" most people will respect that. I would sit with mine at the park and when I noticed that she was focused on an adult that was out of earshot I would lean down and massage her ribs and shoulders while saying "Watch um" in a menacing whisper as if that person was some terrible threat. The close contact gave her the security and the tone let her know that that person was not a friend. Later, when someone pulled in the drive or knocked on the door, I again said "watch um"and she would come to me for the security, but would growl deep in her throat. If a dog is really timid, you can get a friend that the dog doesn't know to help by acting scared and retreating from her when the dog gets focused. Caution! If you do this with a confident dog you will be encouraging the attack response, so be carefull. This form of training is the opposite of what you want in a town dog or a naturally agressive breed. You want everyone to pet them so you won't have a lawsuit on a leash! Keep in mind that each dog has a personality and that training has to be constantly modified. What you, your daughter and your husband want in your new dog is not only possible but shoud be fairly simple to obtain from a golden or golden mix.
Goldens can be chicken eaters.