Today was a very sad day :(

Chickenaddict

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I had to sell some roosters and chicks and for some reason it was particularly hard this time around. My favorite little rooster peanut had to go to a new home as well as a rooster we have had for 3 years, a few 4 month old roos that had grown on me the past 4 months, and a total of 17 one month old chicks which I had planned to sell. One of the chicks was the first to be raised with the flock by my bantam leghorn pearl. After Junior (the chick) left pearl cried and cried, frantically looking all over for her beloved junior. It literally broke my heart. I picked her up ,sat in a lawn chair with her in my lap and cried with her telling her i was soo sorry for taking her baby from her. I have sold birds for awhile now and most are pretty easy to part with especially when you seem to hatch out mostly roos.

After the chicks left in the morning I had another friend coming to pick up some adult roos which I decided to part with due to the hens getting too tattered and the noise factor but as far as getting along goes everyone got along just fine. Crash my older rooster was really on my list for a few years now due to him attacking people and children but lately it was like he knew he was gonna have to leave and has been greeting me in the driveway everyday I come home from work. He let me pet and hold him without going nuts on my face like he had previously and was just generally alot more friendly then he had ever been. I miss his crow already
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Mr peanut was a serama roo I hatched under a hen last october. He was a PQ boy due to his size but his type was excellent. Because of his size and the fact he was quite noisey I decided to part with him. My little serama hen (peanuts mother) had been taking off with her son on a daily basis, they hung out together everyday all day but come roost time they would sleep seperate. He would find her treats and treat her like a queen. When he was 3 weeks old she decided she wanted to leave him and join the adults so I let her and I hand raised him. He went to a school with me for show and tell. It was a group of 1st graders. He was such a huge hit. All the kids could handle him and he just loved every minute of it. When it came time to let him free range he changed and no longer wanted anything to do with me... Not too long after his mother had started pulling herself out of the serama flock and hanging out with her son again as if to say she was sorry that she had abandoned him when he was so young.

When the friend came to get the adults we spent a good half hour trying to run around the yard and catch him in a fishing net, during the chase I stopped for a brief moment and cried. I never wanted to part with him even tho I knew i needed to. Previously when I had tried to rehome him it always fell thru so I took it as a sign that he was meant to stay here but this time the transaction was already in progress and it was too late to turn back.

I can't seem to stop feeling guilty and crying about them. The babies aren't so hard to part with because they are only here a short time and don't have a chance to grow on you, well some anyway lol. My point is just when you think it gets easier you have a day like today and wonder why you are even rasing chickens in the first place when it is sooo hard to part with those special ones. I am hoping venting about this will help me get over it and move on so ty for letting me vent.
 
Awwwww, I am so sad for you. It's never easy letting them go. I have a gelding Alpaca that isn't worth much, but he does eat and I care for him like he is a stud deluxe, and I know I should sell him and get another girl . . .but the thought of Dot.com going to another family just tears me up, and I just can't do it. . .so I know exactly what you are going through. As long as you know they are going to a good home, and won't end up in the stew pot, it will be o.k.
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That is so sad and so hard!! I know I need to let go of some more of my roos, especially these adorable little fluffy legged bantams but I just love them. I know it's not fair to them to have so few hens between them and they need a better home with ladies of their own. I need to suck it up and do it, but I know I'll cry like a baby too!
 
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It's never easy parting with ANY animal, and no matter how "trivial" chickens may be seem to people who just don't understand, we all know how special they really are...

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They all went to wonderful farms thank god. I can go visit them anytime and you bet your britches i will. I just am amazed on how bad i miss them so already. It is very hard but your right it had to be done for the sake of all their well being. Thank god for local petting zoos!! Thank you all for understanding what may seem like stupid feelings to some non chicken loving folks. It is nice to be able to come here and have such support from all of you, my family will never understand the way you folks do
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Chickenaddict, I think you've convinced me that breeding is NOT for me.

Every one of our flock is precious to me and there's no way I could ever part with any of them before their time. We've lost girls in the past due to misadventure and or unexplained causes. They weren't eaten. Just simply laid to rest in a deep grave (to keep the coyotes from digging them up) in the back end of the farm.

These birds are family to me. I know, I'm hopelessly silly about it all. I'm pretty sure I couldn't get into breeding if it meant that I'd have to part with a single bird!
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Serrin I totally agree with you on not breeding. See I have rehomed birds in the past and it hasn't been hard at all but some hit you harder than others. I too am questioning breeding any more myself but sheesh what am I gonna do with the boatload of broody hens in the garage? I have never taken a baby chick away from his mother that part has always taken place after the broody hen goes about her merry way. That was the hardest part. Some say it gets easier and sometimes it does but others it doesn't....
 
I went through the same thing when I had to rehome our cockerel not long ago. I felt as though someone had just died and it literally tore me up. I was just telling my CH that I don't think I'd do very well at breeding since I get so attached. I think the next time I want to raise chicks I'll stick with sex links so there's no chances of getting attached to an unexpected rooster
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That's great you can visit them when you want to. Our cockerel went to live on a bird farm and we've been keeping in contact with the family and hear he is adapting well. It helps knowing he's making chicken friends and getting along well. I think my own mind was my worse enemy because I kept thinking he was scared and alone when in fact he's been doing really well.

Sending you a
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