Trying to get in touch with my girly side.. I need help.

[gale65]

That is hard. For me, girly is when I wear a pink sweatshirt instead of a blue or brown one, and maybe my birkenstock sandals, which may not be the most feminine kind in the world.

The tallest heels I have are probably my ugg boots.

No makeup, nothing special for my hair (just a ponytail) and my eyebrows are bushy and natural. I do wax my legs though... I have had my brows waxed in the past and always by a professional.

 

[onthespot]

heels, I say learn to like shoes you can walk in. Take all the time in the world to choose them, for comfort, walkability, stability if at all possible. There are so many styles out there, so many levels of comfort and safety. You don't have to wear the most extreme shoe to make a "girly" impact. (unless you are wearing extreme dresses and hair, then you are really limited to shoes that will show off your legs like crazy to balance out the dress and the hair/makeup.)

FWIW, I put my girlie side on hold years ago. back in the day though, I used to cause guys to walk straight into walls and nearly drive off the road, just in my day to day "regular" stuff. Clothes and shoes are accessories to you. You are not an accessory to clothes and shoes. Always know that your girliest part of your get up is you. Work it, girrrrl!

 

[justbugged]

Wax the eyebrows.

As for shoes get a pair and wear them. It's all practice. In less than week you should have it down. I wouldn't start with more than a 3" heel. I

stiletto shoes. They make a girl walk like a woman. Most women should wear heals if they are wearing a skirt. Otherwise most women look dumpy in flats and the dress.

Back in the day I was known to wear 4" stilettos all day at a stadium. Of course now I can only wear one kind of New Balance sport shoes, with orthotics. I finally gave away my last pair of "knock him dead shoes". My DD was thrilled to have them. I really don't think that my wear high heels back then has anything to do with the nerve damage now. But dang I do miss high heels. I still

when I see cute shoes.

 

[kevinhannan]

I always thought that 'girliness' was carried off in body-language and confidence.

It's true, 'come-hither' eyes don't always work with 'Shameless' clobber, but the
most attractive/girly women I have known has been less about the clothes
and more about the person. A quiet, side-discussion between the women revealed
it was not a pair of heels in sight but her control-panties (sorry, guys!) that gave her
the confidence she wanted!

 

[Animalian]

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waxings better to start. Get them to "shape' them for you, then you just pluck the stragglers as they come in.

You could also get them to thin them a little so it's more constant and not a dark end and a thick end.

 

[Royd]

I'm an eyebrow kind of guy. Unless you have a unibrow or something Gandalf the Wizard would be proud of, leave them alone. Eyebrows are the picture frame for the eyes. Most plucked or waxed eyebrows are generic looking.

 

[SillyChicken]

if you want to define your brows, go with the wax.

For heels... go with a nice set of wedgies. they're in style, they're really easy to walk in, even a 4-5" heel. If you get something like in the below link with a raised platform, your foot isn't as arched as say if you had stilettos, but you still get the height.

http://www.shopbop.com/qiana-twist-...499&fm=other-shopbysize-viewall&colorId=38001