It has to do with the color genes. If you keep them separate, everything works nicely. If you mix them with other colors, you get a bunch of non-standard colors.
If you are just breeding for your own pleasure and like unusual colors of chickens, there is nothing wrong with crossing buffs with other colors. If you are keeping a non-breeding flock, there is no reason to separate the colors.
But if you want to produce chicks in specific color varieties, it works best to keep buffs separate from all other colors. Jubilees are another color that does best by themselves, not mixed with others.
If you breed a buff rooster or a jubilee rooster to black hens and lavender hens, you will get get chicks with a lot of black, but they will also have a lot of leakage of other colors. Chicks with a Buff father will show even more leakage than chicks with a Jubilee father.
Here is a thread that has some pictures of chicks that are a cross of Buff Orpington and Lavender Orpington:
https://www.backyardchickens.com/threads/lavender-x-buff-orpington-cross.982278/
The first post has pictures of a chick when he's just getting his feathers.
Here's a later post with pictures of some pullets that are pretty well grown up:
https://www.backyardchickens.com/threads/lavender-x-buff-orpington-cross.982278/page-4#post-16431730