DickMidnight
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i read all 48 pages of this thread, and while it definitely sounds like the OP is dealing with a terrible neighbor (i’ve had my own experiences), some of the pieces of the puzzle aren’t exactly fitting for me.
OP was given great advice early and often about contacting an attorney, building a secure privacy fence, and i think someone may have mentioned having a land survey done (if no one did, they should have).
but all of these really good suggestions were met with concerns about prohibitive costs.
ignoring the fact that this dragged on for 5+ months where a cease and desist likely would’ve shut the neighbor up OR where a survey would’ve shown OP where the coop could be moved to to satisfy ordinances, somewhere in the midst of all this the OP and her husband bought a new truck, 300 ft of garden hose, and are renting a skid steer. all items ranging from a few hundred to at least a few thousand dollars.
i know what it’s like to have a terrible neighbor. they can make life borderline unbearable. but i’m sorry to say that a lot of this was self inflicted misery because the situation was mishandled from the jump.
OP, i hope you find a house and move. ultimately it’s what i ended up doing and my only regret is that i didn’t do it a year earlier.
however, in the future, if you find yourself in another mess, find the most direct route to making the problem go away and throw your resources at it. in your case, since your neighbor was harassing you, any capable lawyer could’ve painted your neighbor as an aggressive drunk and presented him with an air tight gag order. choosing not to go this way led to months of stress and drama. i hope it’s all behind you soon.
OP was given great advice early and often about contacting an attorney, building a secure privacy fence, and i think someone may have mentioned having a land survey done (if no one did, they should have).
but all of these really good suggestions were met with concerns about prohibitive costs.
ignoring the fact that this dragged on for 5+ months where a cease and desist likely would’ve shut the neighbor up OR where a survey would’ve shown OP where the coop could be moved to to satisfy ordinances, somewhere in the midst of all this the OP and her husband bought a new truck, 300 ft of garden hose, and are renting a skid steer. all items ranging from a few hundred to at least a few thousand dollars.
i know what it’s like to have a terrible neighbor. they can make life borderline unbearable. but i’m sorry to say that a lot of this was self inflicted misery because the situation was mishandled from the jump.
OP, i hope you find a house and move. ultimately it’s what i ended up doing and my only regret is that i didn’t do it a year earlier.
however, in the future, if you find yourself in another mess, find the most direct route to making the problem go away and throw your resources at it. in your case, since your neighbor was harassing you, any capable lawyer could’ve painted your neighbor as an aggressive drunk and presented him with an air tight gag order. choosing not to go this way led to months of stress and drama. i hope it’s all behind you soon.