Sorry to hear of that.
The sideways tail is called wry tail - it is a genetic defect.
As for the frizzle - I'd like to see photos of it. My own frizzle I thought for the LONGEST time was a girl, until a bunch of Polish breeders told me it was a boy. . . Gosh I was convinced it was a girl, really, - He had no comb, hardly any wattles, a girly voice, a submissive behavior, a very friendly behavior, a smaller body, no visible hackle or saddle feathering, no sickle forming when the smooth already had it ALL going on.
Well, I looked further in the images and into him, and lo and behold, the frizzling was just simply masking it all. He didn't have sickles, no, those grew much later - But he did have saddle and hackle feathers. And crowed a month later.
Still though he's got NO comb, whatsoever, and hardly any wattle. But I like it that way! It so sooo hard to find a good headed Tolbunt, or Polish for that matter, and having no comb or wattle is 100% wanted in the Standard.
Mine are doing just great though, even through this rain. They're mating the girls like crazy too, but since the girls are molting. . . No eggs and no acceptance of the attempted matings. But, I'm patient!