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That is EXACATLY how it is at my house! I'm outside doing yard work for many hours per day. DH will do one project for me per weekend, and that "project" will rarely take more than 45 minutes to do. Some of the projects he does well, but quite a few are so rickety (the bench in my greenhouse!) that I need to do them all over again! I asked him to drill a hole in the side of my chicken coop so I could pull an extension cord into it. I showed him exactly where I wanted it, a few inches above the coop floor so I could tuck thecord out of sight. Well, he drilled the hole through at about 4' inside, or 5' on the outside so there is a big ugly cord hanging out of the coop, not hidden as I wanted. I asked why he put it there instead of where I wanted it "Because it was easy to reach!" Same thing dinner wise then. If someone needs to run to the store for something, it is not him because he is sore from whatever project he did for me! Grrrr. At least he carries the bags of feed up to the coop for mme and his salary is decent, I wish decent enough for hired help, but that is rather my fault. If we had stayed in Woodinville we would not have had a huge mortgage from building a new house, and I likely still would have been working at my job.
That is EXACATLY how it is at my house! I'm outside doing yard work for many hours per day. DH will do one project for me per weekend, and that "project" will rarely take more than 45 minutes to do. Some of the projects he does well, but quite a few are so rickety (the bench in my greenhouse!) that I need to do them all over again! I asked him to drill a hole in the side of my chicken coop so I could pull an extension cord into it. I showed him exactly where I wanted it, a few inches above the coop floor so I could tuck thecord out of sight. Well, he drilled the hole through at about 4' inside, or 5' on the outside so there is a big ugly cord hanging out of the coop, not hidden as I wanted. I asked why he put it there instead of where I wanted it "Because it was easy to reach!" Same thing dinner wise then. If someone needs to run to the store for something, it is not him because he is sore from whatever project he did for me! Grrrr. At least he carries the bags of feed up to the coop for mme and his salary is decent, I wish decent enough for hired help, but that is rather my fault. If we had stayed in Woodinville we would not have had a huge mortgage from building a new house, and I likely still would have been working at my job.