CGG.................... Some thoughts..........................Yes, they are blunt but the seriousness of the situation he is putting you both in warrant it.
I noticed on my truck that she may have had a run in with a tree or ditch last night.
I don't think in the State of Washington you are going to convince anyone to do what you want with insurance.
And yes, that's fraud.
Insurance companies goal is all about protecting their bottom line.
Something happens like your husband gets in bad wreck or kills someone they are going to find out you are married and then your life is cooked for a long time.
Yes, a blow and go device be good but you need to get to the bottom of this.
Not just do what gets you by.
He can get someone to blow on it that isn't drinking and down the road he goes kills someone and you are in deep doo doo.
I assume you can't get him to go to counciling?
He has one huge maturity problem.
I don't give a rip how much pain you in drowning your sorrows in alcohol isn't going to help.
I know all about pain. There are better answers.
To think he just got done with a DUI he obviously doesn't care about the consequences of another one or the impact on you.
It is up to you to lay down the law.
It is YOU who will suffer for HIS actions so you will need to say it's my way or to the judge/prosecuter he isn't meeting the conditions of his sentence.
He has already said to you by going out drinking & driving again neither he, nor you, are valuable to him.
If he liked himself he wouldn't put him, nor you, in this position.
I'd tell him you will not drink outside the home.
If you loved me you'd stop acting like a selfish pig and would straighten up your act so the truck is off limits except for work.
He needs a HUGE wake up call before he RUINS your life for a VERY long time!
All the evidence is there he has no concern for his and more importantly your well being.
He is placing all the work you have done for a good life throwing it to the wind due to his selfishness.
This isn't going to be easy. But the alternative is even worse.
I know money is almost non-existent. Times are very bad.
But there are good churches out there that will council for free that won't be pressuring you to believe in what they do.
I know this for a fact as I participated in two terms of counciling classes to be a counselor.
Their goal is to keep your mirrage together.
I'd do my best to convince him if you want me to treat you like a MAN then you need to go to counciling and learn how to ACT like one!
I don't think in the State of Washington you are going to convince anyone to do what you want with insurance.
And yes, that's fraud.
Insurance companies goal is all about protecting their bottom line.
Something happens like your husband gets in bad wreck or kills someone they are going to find out you are married and then your life is cooked for a long time.
Yes, a blow and go device be good but you need to get to the bottom of this.
Not just do what gets you by.
He can get someone to blow on it that isn't drinking and down the road he goes kills someone and you are in deep doo doo.
I assume you can't get him to go to counciling?
He has one huge maturity problem.
I don't give a rip how much pain you in drowning your sorrows in alcohol isn't going to help.
I know all about pain. There are better answers.
To think he just got done with a DUI he obviously doesn't care about the consequences of another one or the impact on you.
It is up to you to lay down the law.
It is YOU who will suffer for HIS actions so you will need to say it's my way or to the judge/prosecuter he isn't meeting the conditions of his sentence.
He has already said to you by going out drinking & driving again neither he, nor you, are valuable to him.
If he liked himself he wouldn't put him, nor you, in this position.
I'd tell him you will not drink outside the home.
If you loved me you'd stop acting like a selfish pig and would straighten up your act so the truck is off limits except for work.
He needs a HUGE wake up call before he RUINS your life for a VERY long time!
All the evidence is there he has no concern for his and more importantly your well being.
He is placing all the work you have done for a good life throwing it to the wind due to his selfishness.
This isn't going to be easy. But the alternative is even worse.
I know money is almost non-existent. Times are very bad.
But there are good churches out there that will council for free that won't be pressuring you to believe in what they do.
I know this for a fact as I participated in two terms of counciling classes to be a counselor.
Their goal is to keep your mirrage together.
I'd do my best to convince him if you want me to treat you like a MAN then you need to go to counciling and learn how to ACT like one!
