Most of my flock wants my attention, the SLW are the holdouts.
One big ole BO gets my attention by pecking me; Daisy is so big she doesn't jump up on my lap or on the arm of the chair. Barbara Ann (BR) loves to have a daily chat and she expects me to put my arm around her so she can snuggle up close. Opal (EE), my smallest, loves to be petted while she whispers her woes to me. Violet (BO) sits on my lap...one day this week I had Barbara Ann on the arm of my chair, Opal sitting on my foot and Violet on my knee and all wanting my attention.
I'm guessing that food was/is involved. Rarely have I ever seen a chicken voluntarily jump up on a human unless they have, in the past, received food as a reward for this behaviour. Not saying it couldn't happen...just not real likely unless they have been conditioned to expect food.
Do you want to have friendly chicken for kids or the one that run up to you?
I like my chickens to be chickens. If you train them to come to food that is hand fed or thrown at your feet, they will surely come arunnin' and may even "snuggle" with you for the chance at getting food.
Do I want friendly? Well, as far as I know, I've never had an
unfriendly chicken. I do like that they are cautious and not underfoot at all times. I have a lot of choring on this place that I like to be able to stride along and do, which one cannot do if you are constantly tripping over chickens.
I have affectionate dogs, cats and even sheep....I don't need affection from the 30 chickens I have. Who in the world has time for all that petting and coddling?
My birds free range...their survival counts on them being alert to dangers of all kinds. I expect them to see me as a predator, as it is the normal and smart thing for them to do. It also lets my roo know that I am not to be challenged and that it is much wiser to sidestep the two legged one. This keeps me from having to watch my back when I am doing my daily chores.
My chickens have their own social structure, which, I'm sure is not lacking in any way and would not be further enriched by being pawed by me on a daily basis!
I don't know about y'all, but my human relationships are fulfilling enough that I do not crave affection from my chickens.