We have a neighborhood watch but normally that is me....No one else likes to get involved, lacks courage or is lazy... not sure. I start off nice about things but don't wait too long b4 i pull out the stops. I don't want to see the kids get hurt or killed. I'm the worst and have no prob sticking my nose in neighborhood business that effects me or mine. I'm also the one who gives freely- eggs, mangoes, chickens, cages, time, medicines and tomatoes... when I have lol, most all the times.
Well, since you are giving and helping, obviously you're not being a jerk, you actually care, otherwise you would not be generous. People who actually care don't just 'care' and do nothing. They at least say something. Also, I think—especially these days—while some folks probably are lazy or lack the courage, the latter at least might be encouraged when they see someone doing the right thing, someone who cares enough to step up in a kind but firm fashion to try and keep things in line. They might (one hopes) eventually be encouraged to do the same. Have you any like-minded neighbors, even if only regarding one or two topics? That may be where to start. You can tag-team it and then enjoy ice cold beverages regularly while "having a meeting".
Sorry about your fourth. That sounds really, really unpleasant, to say the least. :/
Sorry about your soup and the haying issues,
@WthrLady. Hope you had a restful evening and feel better today.
My goodness,
@karenerwin, you had a rough weekend! I am so sorry! Especially about your pen. I'm guessing you saw no signs of predators or you'd have a better idea what actually happened.
Plant away,
@littledog. Seems to me gardeners are pretty hopeful, optimistic types to begin with. When is your first frost? Ours is not 'til mid-October, so IMO, plenty of time to plant all sorts of things. It can't hurt.
Also, isn't hoeing kind of zen? Once you get a good rhythm going...
What about putting that rebellious squash in a tomato cage,
@Sueby? Have seen people have good luck with that. If nothing else it'll keep some of that foliage out of the soil (and maybe give you a bit more room in the bed).
@Wee Farmer Sarah Thank you, think I'll try the onions AND sriracha. Maybe I'll put the latter with a bit of water into a squirt gun and just sit waiting in the woods...
Good luck with the borage,
@NewBoots! It's so pretty it's worth any effort.
Despite the continuing exciting reaction to the mosquito bites (Hubby told me that from now on I'm to carry the EpiPen with me even just in the garden—it turns out my response to the bites now is just a step or so short of going into shock) I did manage to hobble/drag myself out to do a little peeking and weeding of the veggie garden. Also planted "Trail of Tears" (! sad name...) and "Blauhilde" pole beans, as well as the Japanese Long and some sort of "White" cucumber seeds. Hope springeth eternal...or I'm just an idiot at this point!
No rain yet here, either; think we're at more than a week of 90+ days. Thank God for the soaker hose, at least I didn't have to stand there watering for ages! Hubby helped by watering the flower beds & window boxes for me (actually, he insisted, because the bites have me in bad enough shape that it's tough to walk...and I, so eager to hit up the nursery to replace what the critters destroyed). But I missed visiting my garden. Can you blame me?
Oh, did I mention—the Flanders Field poppies decided to bloom for our Independence Day BBQ. I almost cried with joy. What beautiful timing. Sorry no pictures...for obvious reasons. They are such lovely flowers!
Also managed to hobble over to visit the daylily. She's giving us one stunning bloom every day!
Finally, I must say I'm a bit envious (not in the bad way—I'm happy to see so many doing so well!) with everyone's yellow squash and zucchini. Can't figure out what I've done wrong this year, having done everything shy of animal sacrifice and/or dancing sans apparel beneath the moon.
