Shetland lover
Free Ranging
I'm so sad for you and Bianca. Such beautiful photos of them both though and happy memories.Today I spent some time with the flock after Ruby's death.
They all seem to be doing pretty good, except for Ruby's sister, Bianca.
I think I already showed you this picture... It is from the last time they chilled together.
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And I mean, they've been always together...
I mean, always.
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As chicks...
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As pullets...
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As hens...
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As... partners in crime?
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It's killing me that Bianca is being more clingy with me than usual and I can't get another friend for her... I just wish my barred rocks weren't assh0l3s who do not fully accept her in the flock, even though they've grown up together...
I had a similar issue when Gladys lost her sister, Alice at just 18 months. They hatched together and had never been apart. I was 'lucky' though as Gladys was fully intergrated with my ex-batts. She also understood that Alice had died as I try to ensure they can visit with their flckmate's body. It sounds crazy but I think it helps. I know that wasn't possible with Ruby.
Gladys definitely grieved, she stopped laying and became very clingy and introverted for a couple of weeks. After that she seemed to decide life goes on and bounced back to normal. A year later, we rescued a new ex-batt, Maud. She became Gladys' best friend and when we lost her, Gladys definitely grieved again. She got over it eventually. I think you need to just give Bianca as much time as she needs, she'll fit in better eventually. I do think some hen breeds can be very tribal, having said that. So, if you can't get a friend for her, you might have to resign yourself to being her 'flock'.
Ferdy and Penelope were hatched within hours of each other, have never been apart and roost together, separately to everyone else. I worry deeply how the survivor will cope without the other.