Hi mayor14,
We've just started the same process, some knowledge came from my partner who's kept ducks before, but also shoots. We're trying the Cayuga breed and Welsh Harlequin. We used the omlet site to look at the different breeds, then found a fairly local breeder who recommended these breeds as good all round meat/laying birds.
Our first lot of eggs through the incubator have gone ok-ish, we lost 2 Welsh, but as it's hatch day and we have pipping I'm not tempting fate at what may/ may not hatch out! The breeder also said that they were fairly reliable parents too, if you don't use an incubator.