I always handle mine a lot, whether they like it or not! Eventually, they like it. For very young chicks, I put a little towel on my lap, and take a chick or two, and cover them in the towel in my lap. Then I sit at the computer and read lots of BYC posts! They also need to know your voice. They like your body heat and movement - they get bonded better that way, I think. Also, it's good to hand feed them - let them pick food from your fingers. Let the kids hold them a lot - When they struggle, hold them a little tighter, like, 'you're not going anywhere" and they soon settle down and get secure in your hands. Mine are now about5 months old, and I can walk up to them in the yard, and they just stand there and wait for me to pick them up and kiss them! (I'm a 'take charge' mom - none of that fussy, you can come to me if you want to, stuff!) Have fun with your new chicks - they're only fragile at first!