Hi Blondi - welcome!
I would suggest if you are working long days and want to be able relax about it all, certainly go for a good quality incubator. It pays for itself very quickly in reduced stress!!! I have a collection of reasonably mid-price incubators sourced off
ebay that do all the turning themselves, and other than keeping an eye on them to make sure they keep working, they don't otherwise need too much care during the process.
Of course you can put as much time and effort and energy and stress into each batch as you like!!! Each time I start a new lot I think I will leave them to it and check them in a week, of course then spend half my time checking how they are going. It is totally addictive and great fun.
As others have already said, certainly read as much as you can but keep in mind everyone likes to do things their own way and in such a way that it suits their life and set up. Use what information seems sensible and useful to you and leave out the other, you can go quite mad second and third guessing every decision you make. Best thing I did when I first started was keep notes of everything I did and what happened, so that if something didn't turn out well, I could try and work out why, and at least not make the same mistakes over and over.
Ask lots of questions - everyone here is so helpful and knowledgeable! And finally - enjoy!
Regards, Cate