Congratulations! That is exciting!!
When my dh and I got married, we did it outside. We rented 'space' at the Arboretum. It was absolutely beautiful.
BUT when it was over and done we swore if we were going to do it over again, we'd elope next time. There was so much family politics, so much to be done. It all cost too much (we had very little help, and a super tight budget with one income and a baby).
If you didn't have a regular ceremony the first time around, do it it now. Otherwise, I say ELOPE, and have a blast! Take along a friend as witness and hike to the top of a mountain, or fly to some exotic location (not sure what the laws would be, but how neat would it be to get married at Macchu Picchu or (closer to my home and much less expensive
) there are some beautiful spots on the Appalachian trail with fantastic waterfalls and views. LOL! I say let your imagination run wild.
Sounds like you guys are made to last! Sometimes it takes awhile to grow up enough to be ready to share that with someone else (hence your divorce).
-Meghan