Any dual purpose breed will probably suit you. You can check Henderson's Breed Chart on personality to help get tendencies for the breed, like the RIR's possible aggressiveness, but you will find people on here that have non-aggressive RIR's. I'll add Feathersite so you can see what they look like.
Hendersons Breed Chart
http://www.ithaca.edu/staff/jhenderson/chooks/chooks.html
Feathersite
http://www.feathersite.com/Poultry/BRKPoultryPage.html
Realizing it is pure personal preference, I would probably consider New Hampshire and Delaware for the meat breeds. It is not that they are such great meat birds. How good they are as far as meat production purely depends on how good the original stock is and hatchery stock is not going to be that different for any of the dual purpose breeds. These birds with their lighter feathers will give you a prettier carcass if you pluck instead of skin. Buff Rocks, White Rocks, Buff Orpingtons will work as well, but I personally prefer the Delaware and New Hampshire. If you skin instead of pluck, it does not really matter. You mentioned friendly so I am leaving off the Wyandottes. Some people have friendkly Wyandottes but as a breed they are often a little more skittish.
As far as egg laying, Leghorns are the best, but they are not especially friendly as a breed, like the Wyandottes. Some of that may depend on how much you handle them when young. I'd consider the sex links at the top for egg laying, not so much that they are any better at egg laying than any other good egg laying chicken, but so you can sex them at hatch. If you cross any two good egg laying breeds you will probably get a good egg laying chicken, whether they are sex links or not.
If you have to have a breed, I would personally pick Australorps. They have a reputation for being a good winter layer. Mine have laid well year round. Again, any of the other dual purpose breeds would probably do as well.
Thinking about it, maybe your best choice would be red sex links for both eggs and meat. The hens lay well and the roosters are mostly white and would produce a good carcass. I haven't checked but I'd guess you could get male red sex links pretty cheaply at a hatchery and they should grow out as well as any other dual purpose rooster.
As I said, pure personal preference. I think it is hard to go wrong with any of them. If you like the Buckeyes, then go for it.