He has the very precious O/O blue egg gene. My other boys can be turds to humans, but are great flock protectors.
So you want to use him for breeding. Do any of the hens have the blue eggshell gene? How badly do you need that one cockerel to get the blue eggshell gene in your flock?
It sounds like your other two are showing human aggression. To me, that could be worse than what that third cockerel is doing. I'm not there looking so I don't know how bad the human aggression or the bothering of the hens actually is. None of your three sound ideal.
So what are your options?
If you have hens that lay blue eggs, hatch them and raise replacement roosters. Keep only replacements that hatch from the blue eggs so you know you have that gene. You do not need the third cockerel for this.
Do you have a way to isolate one or two of the boys from the flock long term? Try removing the two and see how the third reacts when he doesn't have the competition. You don't have to get rid of the other two permanently until you see how that works out if you can keep them out of the loop and let him take over. I don't know if he will change that much if they are gone but it is possible.
Are any of them actually being injured or is this just hard for you to watch? If none are being injured let them work it out. You need to keep an eye on it so you can intervene if you see an actual injury.
Bring in one or more new boys that have the traits you want and get rid of all three. That could be new chicks or you might try to find mature roosters from your neighbors. The way I do it is to order several cockerel chicks from a hatchery so I get what I want and eat all the ones I don't want to keep.
I don't know why you have that many chickens or what your goals are. It sounds like you want to hatch your own replacements. I don't know if those two "turds" are worth keeping, how human aggressive they really are. I don't know if the third will change as he matures. I don't see any specific way that is guaranteed to solve your problems. I'm not sure that those two turds bother you that much. I wish you good luck with it.