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Have you ever been married or lived with an x-husband. I can't praise the benefits enough. There is no romance at all, but there are still plenty of benefits, and if you are as old as I am (58) you would know about the 'typical' ebbing of 'lusty' feelings after menopause. My x-husband is my best friend and it took many years for us to arrive at this stage in life. We share trips to the grocery store and McDonald's and we share the care for the household and my poodle and chickens. He keeps the kitchen 'immaculate' and never lets trash stay in the can more than a few hours. He manicures the lawn. He doesn't pry into my business or finances and he pays rent. What more could you ask for? On the other hand, I get up very early and commute to work every day, bringing home a 'steady' income. Though we separate everything from finances to refrigerator sections, running one household is extremely advantageous financially, allowing us both to have extra 'mad' money when we want it. One more thing. An x-husband knows everything about you from your very best down to your very worst, and ditto for the x-wife. We both think we have the best of both worlds and neither one of us wants to change a thing. Once you get to a point in life where you can wake up every morning loving your life and all it holds, then you should just not rock the boat. I'm not rocking this boat!
I didn't realize that using the term x-husband would elicit such a personal question from someone I don't even know, but honestly, I don't mind satisfying the minds of people who 'want to know'. ;o)
Have you ever been married or lived with an x-husband. I can't praise the benefits enough. There is no romance at all, but there are still plenty of benefits, and if you are as old as I am (58) you would know about the 'typical' ebbing of 'lusty' feelings after menopause. My x-husband is my best friend and it took many years for us to arrive at this stage in life. We share trips to the grocery store and McDonald's and we share the care for the household and my poodle and chickens. He keeps the kitchen 'immaculate' and never lets trash stay in the can more than a few hours. He manicures the lawn. He doesn't pry into my business or finances and he pays rent. What more could you ask for? On the other hand, I get up very early and commute to work every day, bringing home a 'steady' income. Though we separate everything from finances to refrigerator sections, running one household is extremely advantageous financially, allowing us both to have extra 'mad' money when we want it. One more thing. An x-husband knows everything about you from your very best down to your very worst, and ditto for the x-wife. We both think we have the best of both worlds and neither one of us wants to change a thing. Once you get to a point in life where you can wake up every morning loving your life and all it holds, then you should just not rock the boat. I'm not rocking this boat!
I didn't realize that using the term x-husband would elicit such a personal question from someone I don't even know, but honestly, I don't mind satisfying the minds of people who 'want to know'. ;o)