I'm not making assumptions about anything - I am not even assuming that I can take you at your word. I have seen a lot of (particularly young) people who say things like "my animals are my life" or "this animal is my baby; my soul mate," who then, when the animal has some medical condition that clearly needs professional care, "can't afford a vet" or "don't believe in vets" and want advice on stuff they can do at home, for free . . Or like the girl who wants to breed her dog, and a very experienced dog breeder tells her that there is always a risk of the female dying as a result of complications from pregnancy or delivery,who insists that she loves her dog, and would never do anything to hurt her - what part of "you'll be risking her life" gets cancelled out by loving her?
But once an animal leaves your care, that's it - you no longer have control over how it is treated. I don't care how carefully you vet the prospective owner, or how many times you say you want it back, if ever; ultimately, it is their animal now, and they will do as they choose. I was seriously chagrined when I met one of my former breeders in the hands of a local rabbit rescue - I thought surely that family meant to be a "forever home;" that's why I let such a wonderful rabbit leave. I guess I should be glad that they took the trouble to get her to the rescue rather than just turning her loose . . .
I learned a long time ago not to pay a whole lot of attention to what people say, because however much they might mean it now, things change. Not even suggesting that they weren't telling me the truth at the time, just that watching what they ultimately do is a lot more informative.
But once an animal leaves your care, that's it - you no longer have control over how it is treated. I don't care how carefully you vet the prospective owner, or how many times you say you want it back, if ever; ultimately, it is their animal now, and they will do as they choose. I was seriously chagrined when I met one of my former breeders in the hands of a local rabbit rescue - I thought surely that family meant to be a "forever home;" that's why I let such a wonderful rabbit leave. I guess I should be glad that they took the trouble to get her to the rescue rather than just turning her loose . . .
I learned a long time ago not to pay a whole lot of attention to what people say, because however much they might mean it now, things change. Not even suggesting that they weren't telling me the truth at the time, just that watching what they ultimately do is a lot more informative.
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