Big Nasty is gentle watcher of the Soprano girls (EEs), Olivia (barred rock), Crystallina (black cochin), Michael Jackson (white crested black polish) and RoRo (buff orpington).
This is Mister Handsome, my other main squeeze after the husband but before Big Nasty. He's a lover not a figher and...
Hi Friends
Thought I'd pop in and say hello. Nothing has changed on the marriage front, except he moved things out yesterday to his one bedroom apartment on a busy main road in an ugly part of the city. I hope he'll be happy there...yeah right.
Not sure if I'd told you I ended up giving my...
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That has certainly crossed my mind. If he is there is absolutely nothing I can or could have said or done to prevent any of this from happening.
...out there and then rushing home at the end of the day in the winter do lock them down.
This sucks so much.
He's given me heaps of random bulls**t about why he left, but at the end of the day it doesn't matter. He was completely leading me on by keeping in touch and wanting to talk. Turns...
Well, folks, looks like it's done. He has been contacting me a couple of times a week, just to talk, keep in touch. Was here today to work on insulating the basement. We got to talking, and it turns out he's been lying to me about the co-worker. He has been telling me it lasted a week but it...
Thanks, gang! I appreciate and respect all of your opinions and insights. I'm torn in so many emotional directions, as you can well imagine.....insecurity, fear, anger, patience, hope, love, sorrow. Each of these has an action associated with it (contact him, run away, start divorce proceedings...
...in the breakdown of my marriage. The ugly reality is that I lost sight of us, showed some of the worst sides of my strong personality (no, not b**ch or nag, just knowing clearly and confidently what I want to the exclusion of what he had to say far too often) and got to a place where I was...
Thank you again everybody for all your thoughtful words.
The doc is a good suggestion. I'll be going this week. Fortunately we have publically funded healthcare and there will be no bill. I probably won't be able to take my name off the boat and SUV loans unless he finds another co-borrower...
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I don't know how old she is, or whether there is a son or a boyfriend/husband in her life. But there's someone. He has a grown daughter (20) from a previous marriage that ended a very long time ago and never wanted more kids. Can't imagine he'd take one on.
I had a fantastic afternoon...
Thanks again everybody. Your insight and support are helping so much.
Someone asked about age and how long we were married. He is turning 46 in October (and I'm turning 45). We've been together about five years, living together four, married two and a half. We moved to the country mostly...
came as a complete surprise. and he refuses to try to work on our marriage. he's been seeing someone at work who apparently speaks to his most important needs to feel sexy and very much like a man, apparently. but she's not saddled with cooking, cleaning, laundry and all the other trappings of...
I have a rescue cat who came declawed. He has no problem at all defending his turf or himself. They primarily use the hind legs and teeth to fight, and the dewclaws for climbing, so defence isn't an issue. And he makes all the motions of scratching at cardboard. He's none the worse for wear, but...
First night went just great! As hoped, they slept in their rubbermaid apartment where it was no doubt toasty warm. I think they were a bit disoriented this morning, but everyone is up and at'em having breakfast now. AND my garage doesn't stink!
Thanks for the tip about straw. I'll post a couple...
We just can't keep our 16 ten day old white rock meat birds in the garage any longer so we built a 8x4 hoop tractor for them.
The rig seems secure enough. We've zip tied and staple gunned every place that we thought looked vulnerable. The frame is 2x6 with pvc ribs (or whatever the curvy bits...
I wish we had your ambition! Husband and I head off to the u-brew shop in the city several times a year to make kit wine. It's quite good for the most part, and runs about 4.50 a bottle. We did up a batch of malbec today. By no stretch of the imagination would I call myself a wine maker, but...
a little more info...
our one hen of six who is laying normally lays pink/very light brown eggs. today there was a white egg in the nest. we want to figure out if a new hen is laying or if variation in shell colour goes that far.
our fingers are crossed that another one of the girls has...