She saw the lumber bill, and now she's demanding a new computer, a new car, a fence for the yard, and a pound of flesh.
Yeah, you're going to have to do something and it needs to be really good! (not just "massage coupons" ) Oh and give her a great big bear hug and tell her you love her...
My husband dug a deep trench once and called it his "Bonnie Hole." Man we had that "Bonnie Hole" forever. But don't fret you will finish even if it's not till next spring (if the weather holds you up.) Oh and tell your DW that she's not alone. There are more of us DWs that have had to live...