#1 Get an attorney
#2 Document EVERYTHING!
#3 BREATHE!
#4 Get therapy. Seriously.
#5 HE IS NOT A GOOD PERSON. If you are nice to other people, but treat your wife like crap and abandons a baby... YOU ARE SCUM
#6 DON'T TAKE HIS WORD FOR ANYTHING
He knows you are weak and vulnerable. Someone...