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That is a brilliant observation; be on the alert to this kind of passive aggressive behavior. It's very easy to let it confuse you and change your mind (which is why it's used, and so effective).
I can see that! Thanks for pointing it out!
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Thank you! I know you're right.......Especially the last sentence. After DH said it, I told him, "If that's what you want to do, go ahead, otherwise, don't mention that again, unless you mean it."
I am now beyond sad and upset. I'm resolved and calm that I am doing the right thing...
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Ranchhand, I am getting a backbone. I told my husband today that if his son doesn't want to obey the rules, that he can move back home with his mom. I know my husband did not like that one bit. He actually screamed at me last night "What do you want me to do, take the boy and...
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Excellently written.
I really really like everything you wrote, and I am trying. It is hard, when your husband would just like to ignore it and let that child run with the wolves rather than argue with him.
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I wish I knew.....He will be gone for days at a time, he stays with his best friend Mark, who is in the same grade as him. I think a sleep over is Ok sometimes for an evening, but not for days. I don't hand him money, believe me! I think maybe the GED thing might be a good...
This is my first, personal, non related post. I need to vent.
My DH and I have been married for 11 years. His kids have always been challenging. He's got a boy and a girl, and I've got two boys. My oldest son is 23, marred 3 years and has a baby daughter that is 15 mos old. My first...