➡I accidentally bought Balut eggs: 2 live ducks! Now a Chat Thread!

[Kiki]

Bunnies are delicious!!

Eewwweee

 

[ShrekDawg]

She has issues.
She knew she has court long before that day.
Get away from that loser.
Do not unblock her ever.

Yup, my thoughts exactly lol but I could see how sometimes they might make a last minute appointment thing? But even so, she clearly knew since early morning and was only asking me at 11 lol although I do fund find it hard to believe they would make last minute court things.

But yeah, definitely glad to be rid once and for all lol I thought she was nice, she seemed nice enough, but was always kinda clingy. Note the trillion messages? And it was always like that, couldn't go a day without answering or even hours and also sometimes the second I opened Facebook, she would message me because it said I was online. That was kinda creepy and weird I thought. And tagged me a million times but I was scared to ask her to stop tagging me so much. Also I wasn't even working that day but lied so she wouldn't question it. I lied and said I wasn't home or couldn't quite a lot cause if I said I didn't want to I am sure she would beg.

Btw, she was supposed to give me her first and second paychecks, been saying that for a while, then a few days ago said she wants to keep the first one so she can move. I can see that, she needs the money (though also gets like 1200 a month), but I realized I was never gonna be paid back cause she also kept saying her ex was gonna help pay me back. That never happened. She gave me like $30 once. She owes my friend like $900. She's more than a little messed up.

Granted, she also slightly has a mental/learning disability I think and you can kinda tell, repeats everything a few times in a row, but seemed nice enough and was willing to look past it but I think she's also bipolar and/or severely depressed and some otger crazy shit going on haha

 

[Kiki]

Yup, my thoughts exactly lol but I could see how sometimes they might make a last minute appointment thing? But even so, she clearly knew since early morning and was only asking me at 11 lol although I do fund find it hard to believe they would make last minute court things.

But yeah, definitely glad to be rid once and for all lol I thought she was nice, she seemed nice enough, but was always kinda clingy. Note the trillion messages? And it was always like that, couldn't go a day without answering or even hours and also sometimes the second I opened Facebook, she would message me because it said I was online. That was kinda creepy and weird I thought. And tagged me a million times but I was scared to ask her to stop tagging me so much. Also I wasn't even working that day but lied so she wouldn't question it. I lied and said I wasn't home or couldn't quite a lot cause if I said I didn't want to I am sure she would beg.

Btw, she was supposed to give me her first and second paychecks, been saying that for a while, then a few days ago said she wants to keep the first one so she can move. I can see that, she needs the money (though also gets like 1200 a month), but I realized I was never gonna be paid back cause she also kept saying her ex was gonna help pay me back. That never happened. She gave me like $30 once. She owes my friend like $900. She's more than a little messed up.

Granted, she also slightly has a mental/learning disability I think and you can kinda tell, repeats everything a few times in a row, but seemed nice enough and was willing to look past it but I think she's also bipolar and/or severely depressed and some otger crazy shit going on haha

Don't make excuses for her.
I don't get a rats behind what disability she has. She used you probably knowing good and well that she was never going to pay you back.
Screw her....she will do it again.
Don't you fall for it!

 

[RosieR]

Don't make excuses for her.
I don't get a rats behind what disability she has. She used you probably knowing good and well that she was never going to pay you back.
Screw her....she will do it again.
Don't you fall for it!

Yeah it takes a while and a lot of lost time and money sometimes. But get rid of the toxic! You made the right call.

 

[NanaKat]

Spray the walls and bedding to help rid the flies.

I also use the Lavendar scented Pinesol mixed 1cup to 1 gallon water to spray the surfaces outside my coops to keep flys away from the doors, windows, doors and steps.

Missed a lot of posts since Friday, but enjoyed visiting with my family...brother and sister flew in from California for a few days.

@KikisGirls Congrats to the mini! What position will he serve for Student Council?

Update on the cbd oil...my blood sugars are floating between 70 and 115 for the mornings and have dropped to the 70s before meals. This is with a dose every other day!! SO I dropped my insulin down 5 units and will monitor that with random blood sticks for the next three days.

 

[ShrekDawg]

Don't make excuses for her.
I don't get a rats behind what disability she has. She used you probably knowing good and well that she was never going to pay you back.
Screw her....she will do it again.
Don't you fall for it!

Yeah it takes a while and a lot of lost time and money sometimes. But get rid of the toxic! You made the right call.

Thanks. I guess you're both right. Idk, I feel like she genuinely wanted to pay me back but then it was always rent went up, bills were higher than usual this month, etc.

I think I am too nice lol

 

[Pugsabi]

Thanks. I guess you're both right. Idk, I feel like she genuinely wanted to pay me back but then it was always rent went up, bills were higher than usual this month, etc.

I think I am too nice lol

I think you're too nice. From what you've told us alone, I don't think she would've tried to hard to pay you back. If she already owed someone else money, and then borrowed from you and only gave back small amounts of$30-$50 and still asked for more, she has no shame.

All bills go up over time, usually over a period of months. It's rare that rent would go up randomly unless her contract only lasts month by month.

Plus if she truly wanted to pay y'all back she would have made a payment plan the moment she realize she couldn't give you back the whole amount. Something like, I'll give you $100 every pay period until I can pay you back.

I think going forward you should set some rules for yourself. Set a hard limit for how much of your time, money, and effort you are willing to give someone before they reciprocate and stick to it, otherwise you'll find yourself in this same situation with someone else.

 

[Pugsabi]

Thanks. I guess you're both right. Idk, I feel like she genuinely wanted to pay me back but then it was always rent went up, bills were higher than usual this month, etc.

I think I am too nice lol

 

[RosieR]

I think you're too nice. From what you've told us alone, I don't think she would've tried to hard to pay you back. If she already owed someone else money, and then borrowed from you and only gave back small amounts of$30-$50 and still asked for more, she has no shame.

All bills go up over time, usually over a period of months. It's rare that rent would go up randomly unless her contract only lasts month by month.

Plus if she truly wanted to pay y'all back she would have made a payment plan the moment she realize she couldn't give you back the whole amount. Something like, I'll give you $100 every pay period until I can pay you back.

I think going forward you should set some rules for yourself. Set a hard limit for how much of your time, money, and effort you are willing to give someone before they reciprocate and stick to it, otherwise you'll find yourself in this same situation with someone else.

Agreed, too nice lol. You’re being used Kdogg. Whether this person is consciously using you or not is besides the point. Keep meaningful relationships, and get rid of toxic people. Helping out friends is fine, but you need to learn the difference. <3

 

[ShrekDawg]

I think you're too nice. From what you've told us alone, I don't think she would've tried to hard to pay you back. If she already owed someone else money, and then borrowed from you and only gave back small amounts of$30-$50 and still asked for more, she has no shame.

All bills go up over time, usually over a period of months. It's rare that rent would go up randomly unless her contract only lasts month by month.

Plus if she truly wanted to pay y'all back she would have made a payment plan the moment she realize she couldn't give you back the whole amount. Something like, I'll give you $100 every pay period until I can pay you back.

I think going forward you should set some rules for yourself. Set a hard limit for how much of your time, money, and effort you are willing to give someone before they reciprocate and stick to it, otherwise you'll find yourself in this same situation with someone else.

Yeah, idk. It started out small like money for the bus or food which was understandable but then once I gave her a few rides or a few dollars a few times it spiraled. And she actually did say stuff like that, like oh I'll pay you $100 until you're fully paid back or her first two paychecks but then it would always get cut or not able to give me it. And actually I think she did maybe give me 50 once too so 30 and 50 but then I'd just basically give it right back when she'd ask for other stuff and she would always talk about gas money but never actually give it.

And the rent I think only recently went up but she's technically section 8.

And I actually did say a couple time no more money until you pay me back but then I would feel bad and help her.

It's hard cause I think she truly needed the help but then I also think she is terrible with her money. And buys crap food or stuff she really doesn't need. Not even so much stuff but she'd also put tons of random food in the cart. The Walmart thing was my fault, offered to go for Ramens cause they're way cheaper there. Next thing I know there's $100 worth of food in the cart and I couldn't say no. And we had just left the dollar store so she did have some food. But she gets a lot a month, ssi from disability and when her dad passed she gets a bit extra, and rent was only like 3 something and is now $469 I guess and she says its more than she should be paying with the section 8 thing and idk, maybe it is, and bills I think she said are 200 more cause everything is electric and idk, I guess 300 a month is really nothing to live on but it might be 500, not sure if it's 1000 or 1200, and she gets food stamps, not many atm but still. Point being, seems to me like she should be able to save some or buy some of her own stuff especially where I wasn't even working and spending what my parents gave to me on her and then even after I got the job walking Libby, spending my actual money, but she still probably gets more a month than I do yet was always asking for stuff. Although I guess Netflix and the phone and TV probably cost a lot but still.

Anyway, didn't mean to completely break down her financials or bash people without money or anything but she at least has some income and didn't even try to pay me back.

Just kept borrowing.

Also we are not in the city and it's just a little local bus that goes around the surrounding towns and it literally costs $1 but she can get it for 50 cents because she is disabled and there is a monthly bus pass that is only $15 or $20 yet she had to ask me for bus money or rides all the time. I could see genuinely not having any sometimes but all the time? I also think she just didn't like to take the bus so would ask me for rides instead. It does take longer because there is a connector one to get on a second bus so it can take a couple hours to get where you're going so she'd have to leave earlier but that doesn't mean she should ask people for rides all the time. Especially when sometimes it'd be for dumb reasons like can you drive my friends and I to Walmart, it was at night btw, or to downtown to see friends and shit

Agreed, too nice lol. You’re being used Kdogg. Whether this person is consciously using you or not is besides the point. Keep meaningful relationships, and get rid of toxic people. Helping out friends is fine, but you need to learn the difference. <3

Thanks, I suppose that's true. I thought every time I was helping ha