I never said it would be pointless. Just that there’s certain ones I know I don’t want to do. Also, to me, long term, it’s about more than the money. I want to be happy doing something. Didn’t say I would get that immediately but I mean eventually.
I never said this either. In fact, I literally said I was going to get a crappy job for now....
I know I won’t get a great one immediately or love every job. Literally never once said I expected that.
But I also have zero desire to just settle and stay with one job for life just because.
I also don’t give a shit about the money. I want to be happy.
And I don’t see what’s so wrong with that or with having goals.
All that said, I already KNOW that won’t happen overnight. Which is why I said I’m going to find a regular/retail type job first. I know that’s necessary.
But as soon as I get enough money, I’m going to start working towards the goal. Not saying I’ll quit right away or anything, that would be stupid, but I want to start working towards it.
I’m really sorry all that happened and that your days been rough and I really hope it gets better.
But that said, I don’t see how I’m “making every excuse in the book to not get a job.”
I have never once said I didn’t want to get a job or that I expected to just be able to do what I want right from the start. In fact, I have said numerous times I am going to get a regular retail type job first.
What I
DID say, however, is that I want to be happy in whatever job I end up with and that I want to eventually start my own business. And frankly, I really do not see what is wrong with either of those things.....
I’m not using that as an excuse not to get a job.
Hell, I
NEED a job to be able to pay for it all.
But I’m not going to do it forever just because that’s what most people do.
I’m going to work a regular one for a while, maybe years if I have to, never said I would quit anytime soon, and then try to start it. And if it doesn’t work out, I am ALL FOR going back to a regular job. Or finding a similar career working for someone else instead.
But I want to at least try. I don’t want to be 90 and regret that I never tried because it was “too hard” and getting a regular job was easier or whatever.
Starting my own business is also way harder than getting a regular job would be so I’m really not sure why everyone seems to think it’s laziness on my part or an excuse to not get a real one. Plenty of people start their own businesses these days.