10 years ago today...

[Momagain1]

His boys are ok, his girl I rarely see; maybe on christmas an occasionally her birthday...

His boys by state default; even tho mmoma lost custody of them ..are back with her..the 14 yr old has an anger issue and has been
held back twice...the oldest is ok; but has issues as well...she doestn take care of them very well and I can only be around sometimes
as they are about an hr away-ish...

Thanks for your thoughts guys!!!

 

[sfw2]

 

[gritsar]

 

[sumi]

I agree with you about the helmet. I got hit by a car when I while I was cycling, years ago. I'll spare you all the gory details, but my face got carred and tarred and I had a skull fracture. And some other injuries. I would've been better off if I'd been wearing a helmet. Much better!

Sometimes our loved ones stay with us for a little while after they died, to say "goodbye". Nothing weird about it. It just shows they care

 

[annie3001]

what a sad but bitter sweet story. he was very lucky to have you as his sister. god bless you.

 

[Momagain1]

Thanks everyone for the kind words!!

It is hard...my momma was going to his gravesite today to put flowers on it...I was blunt and said why? she said what? I said then you will come home
and spend the entire day in bed crying...you have two living children..one of whom is asking for your help today...
she said she didnt care...<sigh>( I always come in last w/her...)(she always said she hated me..etc..so I shouldnt expect more from her..but..I was just trying to help her...keep her mind busy somewhat..the pain will NEVER go away nor will the memory of that awful day for her..or any of us....)

so I called her a bit ago..she's in bed....as I knew she would be...

I dont know how to help her..its been 10 yrs..she should be able to cope with it without being in bed the whole day right?? or am I expecting too much??? honestly..I dont know!! I dont know how to help her!