Oh my gosh, you started all over again! LOL. My youngest is 11 and I had her when I was 38 years old (yah, I'm 49) I have an age spread too ;P At least when you're an older parent you tend not to over-protect (anymore, LOL) and I kinda think, if the kid survives, they're stronger, like
MarineCorpFarmr said
We, too started over! Our first two are about to be 25 & 22, then we have two adopted they are 15 & 14! (YEA I'm almost 49, too) We have raised horses for 12 years, and my kids almost never get sick! I really believe the dirt is good for them! And the work ethic they get from having animals to be responsible for doesn't hurt them either!