Don't worry and don't stress. Its all normal. Kids know a lot more that we like to think about sex. Its natural they will not want to talk about boyfriends and feelings with their parents (we were all like that). Its not because they are hiding things, but because they are embarrassed and fear the response from their parents (as they don' want them to be angry or disapointed with them).
Kids will be talking about all this stuff with each other and their close friends.
I think many people damage the relationship with their children by getting flustered and imposing rules (out of their own frustration) on their children, and this will make the kid just resentful and she will hide what she is doing (or not doing).
The best response (after the fact of life talk) is to (pretend) to take a step back. Let her know if she ever wants to share any problems you are there to listen and you will not get mad at her. Then leave it at that. The less you pressure her the more she will feel relaxed with you and more likely to open up to you with any questions.
I know is so hard as we are all very protective of our kids.
I have to agree with other posts that at her age it is likely to be just play and not real stuff going on. I remember us kids had girlfriend and boyfridns at school at this age. It was just holding hand, sneaky kissed behind the bushes and it was all exciting and fun. As long and the boy is a similar age to her there should be no problem.
Kids will be talking about all this stuff with each other and their close friends.
I think many people damage the relationship with their children by getting flustered and imposing rules (out of their own frustration) on their children, and this will make the kid just resentful and she will hide what she is doing (or not doing).
The best response (after the fact of life talk) is to (pretend) to take a step back. Let her know if she ever wants to share any problems you are there to listen and you will not get mad at her. Then leave it at that. The less you pressure her the more she will feel relaxed with you and more likely to open up to you with any questions.
I know is so hard as we are all very protective of our kids.
I have to agree with other posts that at her age it is likely to be just play and not real stuff going on. I remember us kids had girlfriend and boyfridns at school at this age. It was just holding hand, sneaky kissed behind the bushes and it was all exciting and fun. As long and the boy is a similar age to her there should be no problem.