Thank you all for your reply’s
I am getting buff Orpingtons b/c it was recommended for someone looking for a pet more than eggs. Also a Salmon “French chicken type” was recommended but I can only find them available at one day old and I am way too much of a novice for that.
what do you all recommend for a BY chicken that’s more pet than “egg layer?”
Basically most chickens. The "avoid" list is shorter so I'll put that here (mostly my opinion but I'll explain why)
Avoid-
1. Thinner bodied, white egg layers (ex. Leghorn, Fayoumi, Campine, Buttercup) because while there's ALWAYS exceptions these birds tend to be more wild, and more flighty.
2. Roosters. I've loved my roosters, even the ones who are absolute jerks. But I'll be dead honest, boy can it be easy without them. Especially in a suburban situation where they're not really protecting your flock from say a predator and you've got neighbors, it's easier on you, the ladies and your neighborhood to avoid roosters, especially if you're new to chickens. Roosters are pretty, but they can be a handful sometimes.
3. Meat Birds. Cornish Cross / Cornish X. I don't care what the threads on here say about them keeping cornish X past butcher date, don't go out and buy them as pets. It'll be MUCH easier for you and the bird in the long run, leave the meat chicks to someone whose ready to grow and eat them properly. Yes it's possible for them to live just fine lives past butcher date, yes some even lay eggs, but it'll be easier for backyard pet chickens.
One day old chickens are not that difficult honestly : D the harder part (hatching) has been done for you! I find started pullets can be a little skittish, I like growing our own chicks cause we get to bond with them from day one (or day three, all depends haha)
Breeds id reccomend... I love my cochins. My easter eggers are insanely fun, I of obviously love my cochins/ee crosses too hahaha! Orpingtons and Plymouth Rocks tend to be fairly common starter breeds, honestly a lot of people just go to the feedstore and get one of each. I kinda like that cause even though most people can tell them apart, it's easier to tell them apart and c'mon who doesnt want one of each ;D haha! Keep in mind, chickens are addicting lol