I would like to say taht I LOVE guns. I have many and we go out and target practice all the time. I am a firm believer in guns, that's what our country was established with. I also think it is important for women to be comfortable with and around guns, even if she isn't crazy about them. Any fool that believes guns need to be outlawed is just simply not familiar with them or doesn't like them to begin with. Here in my state, you have the right to defend yourself and your home from intruders. I have never had to shoot anybody, but there have been a couple of times I had my gun tucked in the back of my pants because I thought I was going to need it. Having a firearm should make you more careful and not more careless. Once you pull the trigger whatever is in that bullet's path will be no more. We hunt a lot too for several different game animals, and that is the first thing in my mind before I pull the trigger, "where is this bullet going to land if I should miss". There are a lot of hunting related deaths here in my state because someone found it more important to shoot an animal than to see where the bullet went. If you are a newcomer to guns, you can start out small until you get familiar with your gun and work your way up to a bigger one if so desired. Your local gun shop or pawn shop will be able to help you out with different guns recoil and loudness and such. Heck, if you were close by you could come try out just about any gun you wanted too. Good luck.