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I think your right it is in the water!! I always wonder also , how can 2 girls that were raised the exact same turn out so differently? The part that P me off is my sister has everyone around her feeling sorry for her. Whether it be that she has gone through a divorce, has 4 kids or the fact that she lost both of her parents. She uses all of this as an excuse to act the way she does. HELLO!! The only part of that I don't deal with is the 4 kids, but I too have been through divorce(s) and the loss of our parents. After they died she called me and told me she was going to kill herself, and all I could say was that she was being selfish. Her 4 kids did not mean enough to her to stick around? She was very angry that I didn't react the way she wanted me to so she called some friends of my parents and told them the same thing. They called 911 and she was admitted to the hospital. That was exactally what she wanted. She pulled the same thing 5 times before people quit falling for that attention getting tactic.
Like I said I have millions of stories but it all comes down to I am a better person with out her in my life. She knew how to suck the air right out of my life.
Please don't take that as I am telling you to disown your family. I would never suggest that to anyone. I am just saying I understand where you are coming from. I catch a lot of flack from family and even strangers that think I am evil and insensitive to not acknowledge my sister. I don't care if they don't understand, this is my choice.
I think your right it is in the water!! I always wonder also , how can 2 girls that were raised the exact same turn out so differently? The part that P me off is my sister has everyone around her feeling sorry for her. Whether it be that she has gone through a divorce, has 4 kids or the fact that she lost both of her parents. She uses all of this as an excuse to act the way she does. HELLO!! The only part of that I don't deal with is the 4 kids, but I too have been through divorce(s) and the loss of our parents. After they died she called me and told me she was going to kill herself, and all I could say was that she was being selfish. Her 4 kids did not mean enough to her to stick around? She was very angry that I didn't react the way she wanted me to so she called some friends of my parents and told them the same thing. They called 911 and she was admitted to the hospital. That was exactally what she wanted. She pulled the same thing 5 times before people quit falling for that attention getting tactic.
Please don't take that as I am telling you to disown your family. I would never suggest that to anyone. I am just saying I understand where you are coming from. I catch a lot of flack from family and even strangers that think I am evil and insensitive to not acknowledge my sister. I don't care if they don't understand, this is my choice.