Is he a congo or a timneh grey ?? Might help someone who is researching.
I have a timneh and he is very much MY bird. Prefers the rest of the family not to touch his cage or play area and does not allow the others to touch him. Me he gives kisses and climbs all over my body.
I refer to him as my retirement companion because I plan for him to be with me forever assuming I live long enough to retire...lol. Dobbie is a delightful companion, although I wish I had more time to spend with him, as I work over 40 hrs per week and this cuts down on his attention.
They are quite intelligent and big lovers. They do need toys to keep them occupied but mine isn't a huge chewer like some of the other parrots. Like his mom he has never met a potato he didn't like and begs for people food.
If he sees me eating something and he is in his cage...he will "rake" his nails across the bottom of his metal dish while glaring at me... it's not quite the chalkboard sound but is almost as irritating and he learned quickly it gets my attention and he gets his portion from my plate/bowl...lol.
I'm sorry you can't keep him...perhaps things will change and you will change your mind. I fear if you re-home him you may worry about him too much to be at peace. Is he home alone ?? You could leave the radio or the television on for him along with treats and toys. Then turn him out when you come home from work. Mine is content to follow me about or hang on to me while I do chores, even sit at the pc together.
Just a side note.... he is not impressed with the chickens at all. Nor does he like any of my other birds.
Julie