The one thing that you must keep in mind is that he is wired to defend his flock any way that he can and to be the supreme overlord of said flock. Anything that he perceives as a threat or a competitor is going to be on his hit list, so you need to remove yourself from those lists. You need to convince him that you're just a harmless, featherless, treat dispensing nobody.
A good method to begin with is to always approach with his favorite treats and always offer them to him and call to him as soon as you're within eyesight. No spooking him, shoving your fist in his face, or approaching him. Make him come to you and make it worth his while to do so. This makes sure that you don't spook him and that he knows where you are, and demonstrates that you're a food-dispensing friend and not a foe. Pay attention to how you posture around him, too. Squat down and offer the treats on his level, not bending over him or reaching down at his face (think about how that would look to you if you were in his position; intimidating). Keep that in mind whenever you're around him, too. No quick movements and no reaching, grabbing, lording over him, chasing, or yelling because it all registers as "predator/threat" to him. Be consistent and be patient, because this could take a few weeks to a few months and there may be minor relapses.
Always wear sturdy shoes and long pants during this "training" period, too, because if he attacks you, you need to do absolutely nothing. If you fight him or if you run, you're behaving just like another roo or a predator would and giving him the feedback that he expects. It just reinforces his behavior. Instead, quietly stand your ground and don't move. The very act of freezing will usually freeze him, too, because he won't quite know what the heck to do when faced with an inanimate object...and then he'll walk away (at which point, you can, too). Sometimes, certain colors and even certain clothing (no joke) will set them off, so pay attention and see if you can pick out what attire and/or behavior of yours tends to set him off and then avoid it. In general, just spend as much time as you're able/willing out and around the flock, too. The more used to your presence in the area everyone is, the better.
Also, being nice to a roo is not a recipe for disaster; doing what he wants is. Don't expect to be able to pick him up and cuddle with him (they usually don't work like that), but you should be able to mingle with the flock and come/go as you please without being pecked/flogged. Unless there is a serious danger (e.g. to your face, a child, etc.) there is no reason to fight him. You're not a chicken; flogging him back for any reason is just animal abuse (you'd do better to just kill him and eat him than chase and kick him around). So just keep your own species in mind and don't be baited by a bird. Mutual peace/respect is what you should be aiming for and remember that it may well take quite a bit of work - it took us 3.5 months down this road before my DH and I achieved peace with our roo, but it's been unbroken for nearly as long as it took to achieve now (and it is definitely person-specific).
x2! Really well said. I've used exactly this mind set with my roosters and it has worked very well.
I like what you said about not being baited by the bird. I really think it takes a certain personality type to sit back and look at the rooster and consider why he's doing this. Some people just see red if they feel anything is challenging them and then all they can do it retaliate.
My rooster hates my mother. Why? Because she comes out of her car swinging her purse at him. Gee...I wonder why he sees her as a threat? Conversely, my rooster doesn't bother my kids because they've been taught to throw a handful of bird seed in the opposite direction of wherever they're going. The birds go to the food and ignore the kids.
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