Ok I will try to make this rant as short as possible. When my oldest daughter was 15 she went and stayed a month with her father in MD and came home pregnant (I was very upset). So first Grandson is born and we pay for everything and I keep him while she finishes school (early straight A's Yeah!) So as soon as she graduates she moves back to MD and the babies Dad (who never sent money in over 2 yrs). She start college and I am proud then we get the call, grandson #2 is coming (I was very upset about this). She has to quit school as she is on bedrest, 2 months early we have a new baby. 3 weeks later they show up at my door, all 4 of them. They stay here until he finds a job, we pay for everything. After 2 1/2 months he get a job so we let them move into our house in town. Electric and everything is in our name but they are paying bills, and giving us $350.00 A month. A few weeks back I was so happy, he got a call from his job (he has worked there now for a little over a year through a temp agency) they are hiring him on permenant, Yeah! That means raise, Ins., and vacation time. Well tonight I get a call he can't go back to work til tuesday, why you ask? He failed his drug test! The sent it to another lab and the new tests will be back tuesday. They say those results will determine if he is fired or if he can go back to work. He knew he was taking the test, I just paid off his bank account 2 weeks ago becasue it was overdrawn and he has money to buy drugs? Could the test be wrong? Am I wrong to be very mad, upset, disappointed, and let down? What should I do, do I have a right to do anything or is it none of my business. I am so confused.