I agree I need to make sure I try to stop bailing her out, it is just so hard. She is not a normal child, when she was born she sufficated to death in the birth cannal (they called it birth asphyxia). They brought her back to life and flew her to childrens hospital in Wash. DC. She had 13 seizures in the first 24 hours after bith. They told me she had seivere brain damage and that she would never walk and talk. Well they were wrong, she walked and talked alittle slow but she did it. She got striaght A's in school and is doing well in college now. I never know if the judgement part of her brain is damaged. SHe has no balance, a tremor in her left arm, and muscle damage of her face. She has never had any common sense (I hate to say that but it is true). I find it so hard to treat her like a normal adult when I know the brain damage is there, it shows up on scans, but nobody can tell us what parts are damaged. I will wait til Tuesday and see if it was a false positve. She is in college here, and I know she isn't doing drug or drinking. I also know she would never tell me if he is or not. The big problem is with them living in my other house, if he is and gets busted they could take my house. My mother gave me that house, even though we don't live in it I keep it because of that reason. My mom died when I was 29, she bought that house so she knew I would be ok.
The only reason I bailed them out with the overdrawn bank account was so they would unfreeze it so thier tax check could be direct deposited. I am praying very hard that it was a false positive, he was on asthma medicine. Wonder if that could cause a false positive. Well thanks for everyone advice. I truly appreicate it and need to here the hard truth not sugar coated advise.
