I hear what your sayin...................... I am not a cat person at all and have a problem with cats attitudes behaviors and plain inability to learn anything. The thing that get's me in my house is that every time the cat does something really stupid and totally destructive my DW & DD laugh and say isn't that cute. to which I reply good while your still smiling clean up the da_ _ mess and fix the crap she broke, at this point they just ignore me and go back to encouraging the worthless ball of hair and claws.
................. Don't get me wrong I like the darn thing, when it's hiding and sleeping and out of my sight.
Ever try to point to something?
If I drop a treat on the floor and the cat didn't see, I'll point to it and she'll look at the end of my finger. so frustrating.