I disagree. From the time I was born, my father's service rifle was ALWAYS where my younger brother and I could reach it and we both knew it. I also knew where his Marine sword was at in my grandmother's house. We were taught not to touch unless it was with adult supervision and we were taught to listen to what we were told. The only exception was with the sword, I was told I could grab it and use it if someone broke into the house. My father taught me to shoot skeet and I was pretty good at it, and none of it means anything to anybody else...unless they want to shoot clay pigeons with me.The media disinterest in good news is probably, as you both indicate, the reason for the lack of exposure. Teachers who succeed i preventing a massacre are as heroic as the ones who are killed.
There has to be something wrong at home when kids, specially ones known to have mental or emotional issues, can get hold of a family member's gun.
My husband owned guns as a child and used to shoot rats because there was a bounty on them where he lived in the city. Kids did it all the time and no one made anything of it. I feel that, just like in the Prohibition Era, now that everyone is making this into a big deal it is becoming one.