I was a 4Her for a year... then I discovered the glory that is FFA. We have a way cooler theme song... EVERYBODY sing FFA! FFA! FFA! FFA! lol. it's really lame actually, but quite impressive when a huge stadium is full of FFA kids all singing that.
I was in 4-H and I am now a 4-H leader and my kids are in 4-H. I think my school had FFA but I didn't know anyone in it, didn't live on a farm, so didn't think it applied to me. My kids school doesn't have FFA. Some neighboring schools do, wish ours did.