I supported going into Iraq at first, and I still dont regret the decision. And this is an issue that my husband and I disagree on too....but, how long do we stay? I know, and believe, that if every soldier left Iraq today their "gov't" would crumble, and they would most likely be taken over by Iran. I know this. But where he and I disagree is that if the troops leave in 1 year... or 5 or 10 or 25. We can spend money and more money and we c an build up their government and teach them our philosophies and show them our freedom. My husband thinks that once they get a good taste of that freedom and see that countries can be so much better than they were the way they did it before, they will fight to keep their new found freedom. I just don't buy that. I think whether we leave tomorrow, or next year, or 20 years from now they will revert right back to where they were. They are a different breed than we are. They have different beliefs, different religion, different traditions and opinions. They're not us, and although we can try our darnedest to make them like us, I think it's an effort in futility. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink.
Should we deal with Iran now or wait? I dont know... do we give them foreign aid now? If we do, we should stop immediately. Do we buy from them? If we do, we need to stop. But should we go further? Should we force them to stop their Nuclear program? I dont think we should. Do I want Iran to have Nukes? Of course not. But until they use them against us, I don't see the need to act. Do I want a Nuke dropped on NY or LA? Of course not. Will it happen? Maybe. Maybe not. I dont know, and I dont think anyone else does either. If it DOES happen, I have no doubt we could make certain it never happened again in no time flat. If this was an isolated instance I would tend to think that we should act now. But it's not, and never will be. It will be one thing have another. Iran, North Korea, China, and how many more? Where do we draw the line?
I dont know. I'm as confused as anyone else is. Makes it even harder to find a party to fit into when you can't even figure out what you believe in yourself LOL.