It is so hard for me to read these threads about pregnancies. We have been trying for over 9 cycles now. If we had got pregnant the first month trying I would be due soon. I also struggle with finding a doctor that will take my problem seriously. I have been charting my cycles for 3 years now and know exactly when we should be doing the deed. And since I'm over 30, I should see an reproductive endocrinologist. But drs don't take charting seriously. They say I need to wait a year but have appeased me with blood work. Forget the fact the blood work shows I have a problem they don't want to pay attention to that. So this is my 2nd cycle of self medicating with soy. The next dr I go to I'm lying. I'll say it has been over a year. Getting and appointment with an RE takes months and you need a referral. It is so frustrating.